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    心理的颱風天(一)

    來源:網友投稿 時間:2019-07-05 16:59:55 閱讀: 字體:
    心理的颱風天(一)

        颱風夜,適合我跟他坐下來把酒談心。

        「我覺得人的心都會變,有時變的更好,有時候變的不知所云。」他說。「像她一開始就知道我過去的事,剛開始她認為沒有問題,沒想到她現在卻變了,過去的事成了她想跟我分手的致命傷。」

        「每個人都想找尋一段更好的愛情,這是出于自私的基因,所以柏拉圖會說撿石頭的故事;也有人說往往最后結婚的不見得是最愛,雖然我認為那是屁話,不愛還結婚,那自己找罪受。」我說:「既然要終身相守,愛才是最重要的因素,沒有真心放下的愛做基礎,婚姻是會質變的;可是人往往只能看到事情的一面,只有睿智的人才可以知道看不見的另一面,但是要看到另一面那需要歷練;如果真的沒有結果你該祝福她,她可能錯過你之后會付出更多的代價,因為,不會再有人像你這樣真心無悔地對她,你有缺點,但是你最大的優點是愿意自我反省。不過成事由天,或許這都是緣分,我跟你說過無奈嗎?!」

        他點點頭。我長嘆一聲:「我父親的過世,第一次讓我感到生離死別時那種無奈的痛,這世界沒有人可以幫的上我,連醫生都沒辦法。后來我也發現,感情是我另一種無奈的痛,你沒辦法去強求一段感情留下來。」

     ;   「所以我選擇等候。」他說:「至少,讓我覺得有希望,不會那么痛。如果面對失去的痛,我倒可選擇可能沒有結果的等候,因為假裝會讓我比較不難過。」我還想開口,他揚了一下手:「我知道這是心理學上的逃避,可是至少讓我有時間緩和自己。」

        我點點頭:「人是一種奇怪的動物,不見棺材不掉淚。一定要被傷到了,才會回憶起什么是最單純的好。我們都傷痕累累,所以我們都寧可被傷,也不愿傷人。」

        「你知道心懸在空中的煎熬嗎?」他跟著長嘆一聲:「我想沉潛,卻始終放不下掛念。」

        「沒那么快!你想要的那份單純,可知是在這人間最困難的愿望。只想要一份單純的念頭,是要經過一些歷練后才能證明的想法,當初你年輕時不也是莽撞、不經考慮,所以傷了很多人,如今傷痕累累后才能體會擁有一份單純的可貴。那你又何必強求那些未經歷練的人,去體驗你的心情?!」我說。

        「我怕她離開我會吃苦,我怕她過的不好,因為我相信只有我可以讓她過的好!」他說。

        (待續)

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